New country, new rental system: unfamiliar websites, landlord calls scheduled between time zones, viewings squeezed in after work, paperwork you didn’t know existed, and the classic “could you provide one more document?” followed by radio silence. The apartment hunt abroad isn’t just about finding the right place, it’s about navigating an entirely different set of expectations, communication styles, and bureaucratic hoops, all while trying to prove you’re a reliable tenant when you’ve just landed and have no local credit history, no former landlord references in the language, and perhaps only a temporary contract to show.
You don’t need perfect grammar to win an apartment, you need clear phrases, structured scripts, the confidence to ask clarifying questions without sounding difficult, and a calm negotiation style that shows you’re both pleasant and prepared. This guide gives you a practical, step‑by‑step language plan for renting abroad, featuring abblino prompts that help you rehearse every conversation stage: inquiries that get responses, viewings that uncover hidden costs, applications that stand out, lease negotiations that protect your interests, and repair requests that actually get things fixed.
This is not legal advice, just language and process tips to help you navigate confidently, communicate clearly, and avoid the common misunderstandings that can cost you deposits, delay move‑ins, or leave you stuck in an unsuitable place.
Table of Contents
ToggleTL;DR: Apartment Rental Language Guide
Daily practice (15–25 minutes):
- 8–12 minutes abblino role‑plays: Progress through the rental journey, inquiry → viewing → application → lease → move‑in/repairs. Start with scripted scenarios, then add complications (slot taken, missing document, unclear clause).
- 3–5 minutes phrase review: Read your saved chunks aloud. These are full sentences with context tags, not isolated vocabulary. Practice stress patterns and pauses, especially before numbers and key terms.
- 3–8 minutes input → retell: Read a real listing or contract snippet, then give a 60–90 second oral summary covering essentials (rent, deposit, location, utilities, move‑in date). Record yourself to track fluency gains.
Core habits:
- Save full‑sentence “chunks” with context tags (inquiry, viewing, application, lease, repairs). Each chunk should be immediately usable with only minor personalization (dates, names, amounts).
- Use politeness ladders (Can → Could → Would it be possible…), clarifiers (Just to confirm…), and confirmations (So if I understand correctly…) to stay clear and professional without sounding pushy.
- Track weekly: apartments contacted, viewings booked, applications submitted, and one smoother 60–90 second “rental call” role‑play where you don’t need to pause and search for words.
The Rental Timeline: What to Say at Each Step
1. Inquiry (message/email/phone)
Purpose: Show you’re serious, organized, and ready to move quickly. Filter out unsuitable properties before investing time in viewings.
Must communicate:
- Desired move‑in date (give a small range if flexible)
- Number of people moving in (adults, children, pets if relevant)
- Employment/study status (this signals stability and income source)
- Budget range and whether you understand what’s included
- 1–2 specific questions that show you read the listing carefully
Why this matters: Landlords and agencies receive dozens of generic “Is this still available?” messages. A structured, polite inquiry that includes timeline and status immediately signals you’re worth responding to. Including a brief question about utilities or viewing availability shows you’re serious without demanding too much upfront.
Tone benchmark: Professional-friendly. Imagine you’re messaging a colleague you haven’t met yet, polite, clear, slightly formal but not stiff.
2. Viewing (in person or video)
Purpose: Assess actual condition (photos lie), understand true monthly costs (rent is only part of the story), gauge neighborhood fit, and build rapport with the landlord or agent.
Must clarify:
- Utilities breakdown: What’s included in the rent? What’s billed separately? Average monthly cost for heating, water, electricity, internet, building fees?
- Deposit terms: How many months? When and how is it returned? What deductions are common?
- Notice period: How much advance warning to terminate the lease?
- Repairs process: Who handles what? How quickly? How do you report issues?
- Neighborhood practicalities: Noise levels at different times, parking, public transport frequency, shops, laundry facilities if not in-unit.
Why this matters: This is your one chance to spot deal-breakers before you sign. A great-looking apartment with mold behind the wardrobe, €200/month heating bills in winter, or a landlord who doesn’t respond to repair requests becomes your problem the moment you hand over the deposit. Asking clear questions here signals you’re informed and helps you avoid expensive surprises later.
Tone benchmark: Curious and practical, not suspicious. “Could you walk me through how heating costs work here?” lands better than “I bet the heating is expensive.”
3. Application
Purpose: Present yourself as the ideal tenant through clean documentation and timely follow-up. In competitive markets, the best communicators often win, not just the highest earners.
Must provide/confirm:
- Required documents (ID, proof of income or enrollment, references, previous landlord letter, guarantor info if needed, sometimes even a SCHUFA or credit check in Germany, a dossier de location in France)
- Timeline: when the landlord expects to decide, when you can provide additional info, when you need to know to keep other options open
- Next steps: Who contacts whom? What format (email, phone, portal)?
- Point of contact: One clear person if you’re applying as a couple or group
Why this matters: Incomplete applications go to the bottom of the pile or get ignored entirely. Asking “What documents do you need, and is there anything else that strengthens an application here?” shows initiative. Following up politely after 3–5 days shows you’re serious but not desperate.
Tone benchmark: Organized and responsive. You’re making the landlord’s job easier by being clear and complete.
4. Lease Negotiation + Signing
Purpose: Understand every clause before you sign, adjust terms if possible (move-in date, small repairs, included furnishings), and establish a professional relationship where both parties feel respected.
Must clarify:
- Start and end date flexibility: Can you move in a few days later? Is there an automatic renewal clause?
- Early termination terms: What if you need to leave early? Fees? Notice? Subletting allowed?
- Maintenance and repair responsibilities: What’s on you (light bulbs, minor repairs) vs. landlord (structural, appliances, heating)?
- Deposit protection: Where is it held? What condition triggers deductions?
- Rent increases: Are they allowed? How much notice? Tied to an index?
Must say/confirm:
- Clause questions: “I might be wrong, but does this mean I’m responsible for [X]?”
- Polite adjustments: “Would it be possible to start on [date] instead? I’m happy to pay from [earlier date] if that helps.”
- Move-in condition confirmation: “I’d like to document the current state with photos and have us both sign an inventory report, does that work?”
Why this matters: Lease misunderstandings are expensive. If you think utilities are included but they’re not, that’s an extra €100–250/month you didn’t budget for. If you don’t document existing damage, you might lose part of your deposit for scratches that were already there. Clarifying now, in writing, prevents conflicts later.
Tone benchmark: Respectful but thorough. You’re not being difficult, you’re being responsible.
5. Move‑in + Inventory
Purpose: Create a shared, written record of the property’s condition so you’re not held liable for pre-existing damage when you move out.
Must do:
- Walk through every room with landlord or agent if possible
- Take dated photos of everything: floors, walls, appliances, fixtures, windows, any marks or damage
- Note everything in writing: scratches, stains, broken handles, loose tiles, non-working lights
- Request repairs for anything that affects habitability (heating, water, safety)
- Get both parties to sign the inventory/condition report
Must say:
- “I’ll document the current condition with photos. Could we both sign the inventory report today or within the week?”
- “There’s minor damage to the [area], could we note that and schedule a repair within two weeks?”
- “Just to confirm, these marks were pre-existing, so they won’t affect my deposit at move-out, correct?”
Why this matters: Deposit disputes are common, and memories fade. A signed inventory report with photos is your protection. In many countries, if damage isn’t documented at move-in, the tenant is presumed responsible at move-out.
Tone benchmark: Detail-oriented and collaborative. You’re creating a fair record, not accusing anyone.
6. Repairs and Maintenance
Purpose: Get things fixed politely, promptly, and with a clear paper trail.
Must communicate:
- Clear description: What’s broken, when it started, what happens when you try to use it
- Urgency level: Is this “no hot water” urgent or “loose cabinet handle” low priority?
- Access times: When are you available for a repair visit? (Offer specific windows, not “anytime”)
- Follow-up confirmation: When will someone come? Who? What if no one shows up?
Must say:
- “The [appliance/issue] isn’t working. It’s urgent / low priority. I’m available [specific times]. Could you confirm a visit?”
- “As a result of the leak, the wall is now damp. Could you advise on next steps and timeline?”
- “I reported this on [date] and haven’t heard back. Could you give me an update?”
Why this matters: Vague repair requests (“the heating is weird”) get ignored or misunderstood. Clear, dated, written requests with photos create accountability. If the landlord is slow to respond, you have documentation if you need to escalate or withhold rent legally (check local rules first).
Tone benchmark: Factual and patient, but persistent. You’re not complaining, you’re solving a problem together.
Phrase Bank: Copy, Personalize, Reuse
Tag each phrase by stage (inquiry, viewing, application, lease, move‑in, repairs) in your notes or flashcard app. Read them aloud at least once to hear the rhythm. Add your specific time/place/amount details. The politeness ladders help you match the cultural tone, some countries expect more formality, others favor friendly directness.
Inquiries
- “Hello, I’m interested in the apartment at [address]. Would you mind sharing the available viewing times this week or early next week?”
- “I was wondering whether the listed rent of [amount] includes utilities such as water, heating, electricity, and internet, or if those are billed separately.”
- “I’m a [student/professional] planning to move on [date]. Could you confirm if the apartment is still available and what documents you’d need for an application?”
- “Just to confirm, is the apartment furnished or unfurnished? And is there any flexibility on the move-in date?”
Viewings: Clarifiers and Confirmations
- “Thank you for showing me around. Just to confirm, is the deposit equal to [number] months of rent, and when is it typically returned after move-out?”
- “Could you explain how heating is billed, monthly estimate or by meter? And what would the average cost be during winter months?”
- “I noticed [specific detail: damp spot, noise, missing fixture]. Could you tell me if that’s being repaired before move-in?”
- “On the other hand, if utilities aren’t included, what’s the average monthly cost for a [one-person/two-person] household here?”
- “Would it be possible to see the lease agreement or a sample before I submit an application, just so I understand the key terms?”
- “How does the repair process work if something breaks? Do I contact you directly, or is there a building manager?”
Applications
- “Please find attached my application documents: [ID, proof of income/enrollment, references]. Could you confirm if anything is missing?”
- “Which documents do you require, ID, proof of income, references, previous landlord letter, enrollment confirmation?”
- “Could you tell me when you expect to make a decision, and would you like me to provide any additional information in the meantime?”
- “If helpful, I can provide a guarantor who is [employed/local/etc.]. Would that strengthen the application?”
- “Just to confirm, should I send the documents via email or upload them to a portal?”
Negotiation: Polite, Firm, Specific
- “Thank you for accepting my application. That said, would it be possible to adjust the move‑in date to [date]? I’m happy to pay from [earlier date] if that helps with your planning.”
- “Given the condition of the [appliance/fixture], I’d recommend adding it to the repair list before move‑in. Would that be manageable?”
- “On balance, if we can keep the rent at [amount], I’m happy to commit to a [longer] lease term. Would that work for you?”
- “I appreciate the offer. However, I noticed the deposit is [X] months. Is there any flexibility there, or is that standard in this building/area?”
Lease Terms
- “I might be wrong, but it seems the notice period is [X] months, could you confirm that applies to both parties?”
- “Would you mind clarifying the early termination clause and any associated fees? I want to understand my options if circumstances change.”
- “Just to confirm, am I allowed to sublet if I need to leave temporarily, or is that prohibited?”
- “Could you walk me through what happens at the end of the lease? Is there an automatic renewal, or do we renegotiate?”
- “The lease mentions [clause]. Could you explain that in simpler terms or provide an example?”
Move‑in and Inventory
- “I’ll document the current condition with photos and notes. Could we both sign the inventory report today, or would you prefer to do it within the first few days?”
- “There’s minor damage to the [area: floor, wall, door]. Could we note that in the report and schedule a repair within two weeks?”
- “Just to confirm, these marks and scratches were pre-existing, so they won’t affect my deposit at move-out, is that correct?”
- “I’d like to request repairs for [items] before move-in. Is that possible, or should I report them after I’m settled?”
- “Could you provide a written copy of the inventory report once we’ve both reviewed it?”
Repairs: Priority and Access
- “The [appliance/issue: water heater, stove, lock] isn’t working. It started on [date]. This is urgent / low priority. I’m available [specific days and times]. Could you confirm a visit?”
- “As a result of the leak, the wall is now damp and there’s a smell. Could you advise on next steps and send someone to assess it?”
- “I reported the [issue] on [date] via email/phone. I haven’t received a response yet. Could you give me an update or estimated timeline?”
- “The technician visited but the issue isn’t resolved. Could we schedule a follow-up visit this week?”
- “For access, I can be home [times], or I’m happy to arrange for a neighbor to let the technician in if you provide advance notice.”
Connectors for Clarity and Flow
Use these to link ideas, add conditions, or show reasoning, they make you sound organized and thoughtful:
- “However, I’m concerned about…”
- “Therefore, I’d like to confirm…”
- “For instance, if utilities aren’t included…”
- “As a result, the monthly cost would be…”
- “On the other hand, if the lease allows subletting…”
- “That said, I’d appreciate clarification on…”
- “In that case, would it be possible to…”
- “Given that, I’d recommend…”
Email and Message Templates: Plug‑and‑Play
These templates are starting points, personalize them with specific details, adjust the tone to match the landlord’s style (if they’re casual, you can be a bit less formal), and always proofread before sending.
Inquiry (email/message)
Subject: Viewing request for [Address / Listing ID / Building name]
Hello [Name / Agency name],
I'm interested in the [one-bedroom/two-bedroom] apartment at [full address or listing number]. I'm a [student at X University / professional working at Y Company / freelancer] and plan to move on or around [date, give a range if flexible, e.g., early September].
Would you mind sharing the available viewing times this week or early next week? Just to confirm, is the monthly rent €[amount], and does that include utilities such as heating, water, and electricity, or are those billed separately?
If it's possible, a video viewing would also help, especially if in-person slots are limited.
Thanks in advance for your time.
Best regards,
[Your full name]
[Phone number with country code]
[Optional: link to LinkedIn or brief professional profile if it strengthens your application]
Why this works: You’ve shown you read the listing (specific address, rent amount), stated your timeline and status (signals stability), asked a smart clarifying question (shows you’re thinking ahead), and offered flexibility (video option). You’ve made it easy for them to say yes.
Application (documents + timeline)
Subject: Application for [Address / Listing ID] – [Your name]
Hello [Name / Agency name],
Thank you for the viewing on [date]. I'd like to formally apply for the apartment.
Please find attached my application documents:
- Copy of ID/passport
- Proof of income / Enrollment confirmation from [University/Employer]
- References from [previous landlord / employer / academic advisor]
- [Any other requested documents: SCHUFA, guarantor letter, etc.]
Could you confirm if anything is missing, and when decisions are typically made? I'm happy to provide additional information if that's helpful.
If a guarantor would strengthen the application, I can arrange that as well.
Thank you for your time and consideration.
Best regards,
[Your full name]
[Phone number]
Why this works: Clear subject line, gratitude for the viewing (builds rapport), bulleted list (easy to scan), proactive offer to provide more (shows eagerness without desperation), polite timeline question (shows you’re organized and may have other options).
Repair Request (clear, calm, dated)
Subject: Repair request – [Your address / Apartment number] – [Specific issue]
Hello [Name / Property manager],
I'm writing to report an issue with the [appliance/area: water heater, bathroom sink, bedroom window lock] in my apartment at [address].
The [item] has [specific problem: no hot water, leaking, won't close properly] since [date]. [Add impact if relevant: As a result, we can't shower with hot water / the floor is getting damp / there's a draft].
This is [urgent / not urgent but should be addressed soon]. I'm available for a technician visit on [list 2–3 specific time windows: e.g., Tuesday 14:00–18:00, Wednesday morning, Friday anytime].
Could you confirm a visit date or let me know the next steps? I've attached photos showing the issue.
Thank you for your attention to this.
Best regards,
[Your name]
[Apartment number]
[Phone number]
Why this works: Specific subject line (easy to file and track), clear description with date (shows it’s documented), impact statement (explains why it matters), availability windows (makes scheduling easy), attached evidence (reduces back-and-forth), polite but firm tone (you’re asking for something you’re entitled to, not begging).
abblino Prompts: Practice Every Stage with Gentle Feedback
Copy these prompts into your abblino session. Adjust correction level to “major errors only” during fluency-building phases so you maintain confidence and momentum. Once you’re comfortable, increase corrections for accuracy polish.
Inquiry and Viewing Booking
Prompt:
“Let’s role-play a rental inquiry call. I’m calling about a listing I saw online for a one-bedroom apartment near the city center. Ask me for details about my situation, timeline, and questions. Add one small complication, maybe the first viewing slot I request is already taken, or the listing doesn’t specify whether utilities are included. Correct only major errors that would cause confusion. At the end, give me one polite variant of my best request.”
Why this helps: You practice the opening (polite greeting, clear purpose), handling a small obstacle (flexibility and problem-solving), and asking clarifying questions without sounding demanding.
Viewing Script with Connectors
Prompt:
“We’re doing a viewing role-play. You’re the landlord showing me around a two-bedroom apartment. Ask me 8 questions about my situation, preferences, and concerns. Require me to use at least one connector per answer: however, therefore, for instance, as a result, on the other hand, that said, in that case, or given that. Highlight my most natural-sounding sentence at the end.”
Why this helps: Connectors make you sound organized and thoughtful. This drill forces you to use them until they become automatic, and you’ll discover which ones feel most comfortable in your speech.
Application Checklist
Prompt:
“I’m preparing my rental application. I’ll list the documents I have: ID, proof of income, one reference letter. Tell me what’s typically missing for a strong application in [country/city], then help me write a clear, polite email to the landlord that lists my documents and asks for confirmation.”
Why this helps: You learn what landlords actually want (this varies by country, some want bank statements, some want guarantors, some want employer letters), and you practice the professional-but-friendly tone that wins applications.
Lease Clause Clinic
Prompt:
“Explain to me, in simple terms, what these lease clauses mean: notice period, deposit and return conditions, early termination, and repairs responsibilities. Then I’ll paraphrase each one back to you in my own words, as if I’m confirming with a landlord. Tell me if my paraphrase is accurate or if I’ve misunderstood.”
Why this helps: Lease language is dense and often uses terminology you won’t find in everyday conversation. Practicing paraphrasing builds your ability to say “So if I understand correctly, this means…” in a real negotiation, which signals you’re informed and careful.
Negotiation Practice
Prompt:
“Let’s negotiate. I want to request two things: a move-in date one week later than originally discussed, and a minor repair (let’s say fixing a loose cabinet door) before I move in. I’ll make the request. Offer me two polite phrasing options and one firmer but still respectful option for each. Then we’ll role-play the landlord’s response and my confirmation.”
Why this helps: You learn the “politeness ladder”, how to start soft, escalate slightly if needed, and confirm agreements clearly. Most expats err on the side of being too passive; this drill shows you how to be assertive without being rude.
Repair Ticket with Stress and Pausing
Prompt:
“I’m going to describe a repair issue: the bathroom sink has been dripping constantly since two days ago, and I’m available tomorrow afternoon or Friday morning for a plumber visit. After I describe it, mark where I should stress words for clarity and where ideal pauses would go. Then suggest two phrasing upgrades to make my request clearer or more professional.”
Why this helps: Repair requests often happen when you’re stressed (no hot water, broken lock). Practicing the calm, clear delivery, with pauses before key details and stress on important words, means you’ll communicate effectively even when you’re frustrated.
Correction settings recommendation:
During the first 3–5 sessions on a new topic (e.g., viewing questions), set corrections to “major errors only” so you can build fluency and confidence. Once you can complete a role-play without long pauses, increase to “moderate” corrections to polish grammar and phrasing. Save “full corrections” for final rehearsals before real calls.
Viewing Checklist: Ask or Observe
Bring this checklist (physical or on your phone) to every viewing. You don’t have to ask every question out loud, some you can observe, but make sure you leave with answers to the essentials.
Costs and Paperwork
Total monthly cost breakdown:
Base rent: €___
Heating: €___ (fixed or variable?)
Water: €___ (included or metered?)
Electricity: €___ (your own contract or building-managed?)
Building fees / maintenance charges: €___
Internet: €___ (included, pre-installed provider, or your own choice?)
Parking (if relevant): €_ Total realistic monthly cost: €_
Deposit: How many months’ rent? Held where (escrow, landlord account)? Return timeline after move-out? Conditions for deductions?
Notice period: [X] months from both sides, or asymmetric?
Minimum lease length: [X] months/years. Auto-renewal or renegotiation?
Application documents required: ID, proof of income/enrollment, references, previous landlord contact, guarantor, credit check/SCHUFA, other?
Condition and Safety
Heating and cooling:
Turn on heaters in each room, do they work? Even heat distribution?
Radiators or central air? Thermostat control in unit or building-wide?
Windows: do they open fully, close tightly, have screens, seal well (draft test)?
Water:
Turn on taps: hot water arrives quickly? Good pressure in shower?
Toilet flush works properly?
Any signs of leaks under sinks or around toilet base?
Appliances (if included):
Fridge, stove/oven, washing machine, dishwasher: turn them on if possible
Check seals, handles, and basic function
Ask age and maintenance history if you’re concerned
Condition red flags:
Damp spots, discoloration, musty smell (mold risk)
Cracks in walls or ceiling (structural or cosmetic?)
Peeling paint, water stains (old leak or active issue?)
Electrical outlets: enough of them? Do they look safe and modern?
Smoke detector, carbon monoxide detector present and working?
Security:
Lock quality on entrance door (deadbolt, multi-point lock?)
Window locks (especially ground floor)
Building entrance: intercom, keycard, shared access?
Well-lit hallways and entryways at night?
Logistics and Lifestyle Fit
Noise:
Traffic, train, airport proximity
Neighbors above, below, next door (ask about noise history)
Bars, restaurants, construction nearby
Visit at different times if possible (weekday evening, weekend morning)
Light:
Which direction do windows face?
Natural light throughout the day?
Blocked by other buildings or trees?
Storage:
Closets, wardrobes sufficient for your needs?
Basement or attic storage available?
Bike storage, stroller storage if relevant?
Laundry:
In-unit, shared laundry room, or coin-op nearby?
Drying: outdoor space, indoor rack space, dryer access?
Internet and mobile:
Ask neighbors or check coverage maps
Pre-installed fiber? Required provider or your choice?
Trash and recycling:
Where, when, how (bins, schedule, sorting rules)
Compost, glass, plastic, paper separation?
Parking:
Street parking rules (permits, time limits, cost)
Building parking (included, extra fee, waiting list)
Elevator:
Essential if you’re on a high floor or have mobility needs
Working reliably?
Neighborhood Practicalities
Public transport:
Walk to nearest bus/tram/metro stop (time it)
Frequency and hours (especially if you work early/late)
Direct connections to your work/school or transfers needed?
Grocery, pharmacy, essentials:
Within 5–10 minute walk?
Hours (especially Sunday openings in some countries)
Commute reality check:
Google Maps says 25 minutes, does that match during rush hour?
Test the route if possible
Pro tip: Bring your own mini‑inventory, use your phone to take photos of every room, close-ups of any damage or marks, appliances, and even the odometer readings on heaters if visible. Date-stamp them (most phone cameras do this automatically). Email yourself or back up to cloud storage immediately. This is your evidence if disputes arise later.
Lease Terms Glossary: Language You’ll Likely Hear
Understanding these terms helps you ask the right clarifying questions and avoid expensive misunderstandings.
Notice period / Kündigungsfrist / Préavis:
The amount of advance warning you must give (in writing, usually) before you can legally end the lease and move out. Typically 1–3 months in most European countries, sometimes longer for long-term leases. Confirm whether this is calendar months or just “one month” (which might mean different things depending on local law). Also check if the landlord has the same notice period or a longer one (asymmetric notice periods exist in some countries to protect tenants).Deposit / Security deposit / Kaution / Caution:
A refundable sum (usually 1–3 months’ rent) held by the landlord or a third party (escrow account) as security against unpaid rent or damage beyond normal wear and tear. Key questions: Where is it held? When and how is it returned? What triggers deductions? (Get this in writing.) What’s considered “normal wear and tear” vs. damage you pay for? In some countries, the landlord must pay you interest on the deposit.Early termination clause / Vorzeitige Kündigung:
Conditions and penalties if you need to leave before the lease end date. Some leases allow it with notice and a fee; others prohibit it entirely unless you find a replacement tenant (subletting or assignment). Clarify this before signing if there’s any chance your plans might change (job relocation, study program ending early, etc.).Inventory / Condition report / Übergabeprotokoll / État des lieux:
A written, often photographic, record of the property’s condition at move-in. Both tenant and landlord should review and sign it. This document is critical for deposit return, anything not noted here can be presumed to be your responsibility at move-out. Insist on a thorough one, and don’t be shy about adding items.Utilities / Nebenkosten / Charges:
Ongoing costs for services like heating, water, garbage collection, building maintenance, electricity, gas, internet. Sometimes included in “warm rent” (rent + utilities bundled), sometimes billed separately as “cold rent” + “Nebenkosten.” Ask for an itemized estimate or previous tenant’s bills to understand real monthly cost.Guarantor / Co-signer / Bürge:
A person (often a parent, relative, or employer) who agrees to pay your rent if you can’t. Commonly required for students, recent arrivals, or those with limited credit history. In some countries, professional guarantor services exist (you pay a fee instead of involving a relative).Subletting / Untervermietung / Sous-location:
Renting out the apartment (or a room) to someone else while you’re still the main tenant. Often requires landlord’s written permission. Useful if you need to leave temporarily (internship abroad, family emergency) but want to keep the apartment.Indexation / Rent increase clause:
Some leases allow the landlord to raise rent annually by a fixed percentage or tied to an inflation index. Confirm how much notice you’ll get and whether there’s a cap.
Clarifier template:
“Just to confirm, does [term] mean that [your paraphrase]? For example, if I need to leave in [scenario], what would happen?”
This shows you’re engaged and helps you catch misunderstandings before they become problems.
Negotiation Tactics: Polite + Specific
Negotiating a lease abroad can feel intimidating, especially if you’re used to a culture where negotiation is uncommon or if you’re worried about losing the apartment to another applicant. But small, reasonable asks, delivered politely and with clear reasoning, often succeed, and they show the landlord you’re professional and thoughtful.
Anchor with Appreciation
Start by thanking them and expressing genuine interest. This sets a collaborative tone and makes the landlord more receptive to your requests.
Example:
“Thank you so much for accepting my application. I’m really excited about the apartment and the location. That said, I had two quick questions about timing and one small repair before move-in.”
Why this works: You’ve established goodwill before making any ask. The landlord hears that you’re committed and that your questions are reasonable and specific, not a long list of demands.
Ask for Small, Concrete Changes
Focus on 1–2 items that are genuinely important to you and that have clear yes/no answers. Vague requests (“Can we work something out on the price?”) are easy to dismiss. Specific requests (“Could we move the start date to September 5 instead of September 1, as my current lease ends September 3?”) are easier to evaluate and often easier to grant.
Common reasonable asks:
- Move-in date adjustment (a few days, rarely more than a week)
- Specific repair before move-in (loose handle, leaky faucet, cleaning)
- Clarification or minor adjustment of a lease clause (subletting allowed with notice, early termination with one month penalty, etc.)
- Inclusion of a small item (desk, second set of keys, parking spot if available)
Example:
“I noticed the kitchen cabinet door is loose. Would it be possible to have that repaired before move-in, or should I report it on the inventory and we handle it afterward?”
Why this works: You’re not asking them to renovate, you’re asking for something small and reasonable. Framing it as a question (not a demand) gives them room to say yes easily.
Offer a Trade-Off
If you want something that might be a stretch (lower rent, longer notice period, inclusion of furniture), offer something in return that benefits the landlord (longer lease term, higher deposit, flexible move-in timing, payment in advance).
Example:
“I understand the rent is €1,200. If we could bring it to €1,150, I’d be happy to commit to a two-year lease instead of one year. Would that work for you?”
Why this works: You’ve reframed the negotiation as a mutual benefit. The landlord gets stability and reduced turnover (finding new tenants is time-consuming and costly); you get a small rent reduction. This is much more likely to succeed than simply asking for a discount.
Confirm Agreements in Writing
As soon as you reach any agreement, verbally or via message, send a polite written confirmation. This prevents misunderstandings and creates a record.
Example:
“Thank you for agreeing to the September 5 move-in date and the repair to the cabinet before that. Just to confirm in writing: I’ll pay the first month’s rent and deposit by September 1, move in on September 5, and the repair will be completed by then. Does that match your understanding?”
Why this works: You’re being thorough, not difficult. Landlords appreciate tenants who are clear and organized, it signals you’ll handle rent and communication responsibly throughout the lease.
When to Walk Away
If the landlord refuses reasonable clarifications (won’t explain a confusing clause, won’t do a move-in inventory, won’t commit to urgent repairs), or if the negotiation feels one-sided and disrespectful, it’s often better to walk away. A landlord who is difficult before you move in is unlikely to improve once you’re a tenant.
Red flags:
- Pressure to pay deposit before seeing the lease
- Refusal to put agreements in writing
- Unclear or evasive answers about costs, repairs, or notice period
- No willingness to do a condition report
- Requests for cash-only payments or off-the-books arrangements
Remember: You’re entering a legal relationship that may last a year or more. A few extra days of apartment hunting is better than months of stress and potential financial loss.
abblino can help you test different phrasing levels:
Ask for “soft, medium, and firm versions” of the same request. Practice all three so you can adjust in the moment based on the landlord’s tone and response.
A 14‑Day Rental Sprint (15–25 minutes/day)
This sprint takes you from zero to ready in two weeks. Adjust the days to match your own timeline, if your move is urgent, double up. If you have more time, spread it over three weeks with review days built in.
Days 1–2: Inquiry + Viewing Booking
Focus: First contact, email or phone. Politeness, clarity, key questions.
Tasks:
- Write or role-play 3 different rental inquiries (vary property type, budget, location)
- Save 10 core inquiry phrases (greeting, timeline, status, question, closing)
- Practice one phone role-play: greeting → purpose → 2 questions → confirm viewing time/place
- Confirm you can clearly state: move-in date, number of people, employment/study status, one utilities question
Output check: Can you send or speak a complete inquiry in under 90 seconds without awkward pauses?
Days 3–4: Viewing Questions + Condition Notes
Focus: What to ask, what to observe, how to take good notes.
Tasks:
- Connector drill: 6 viewing-related sentences using however, therefore, for instance, as a result, on the other hand, that said (no repeats)
- Read 2 real listings (in target language or English) and give a 60–90 second oral summary: rent, deposit, location, utilities, move-in date, one concern or question
- Build your personalized viewing checklist (copy from this guide, add your specific must-haves)
- Role-play one viewing: landlord asks about you, you ask 5 clarifying questions (deposit, utilities, notice, repairs, neighborhood)
Output check: Can you ask 5 clear questions without reading from a script?
Days 5–6: Application Documents and Messaging
Focus: What to include, how to present it, how to follow up.
Tasks:
- List the documents you currently have (ID, proof of income/enrollment, references, other)
- Research what’s typically required in your target country/city (ask expat groups, local friends, or check official housing resources)
- Write one complete application email using the template in this guide
- Practice “What’s missing?” drill with abblino: list your docs, get feedback on gaps, ask how to obtain or substitute missing items
- Write one polite follow-up message (for use 3–5 days after application if you haven’t heard back)
Output check: Can you send a complete, organized application in under 5 minutes once you have the documents ready?
Day 7: Negotiation Mini‑Lab
Focus: Polite asks, trade-offs, confirmation.
Tasks:
- Pick two small asks (move-in date tweak, minor repair, lease clause clarification)
- Use abblino to role-play the negotiation: start polite, offer a trade-off if needed, confirm agreement
- Practice the soft → medium → firm ladder for one request (e.g., “Would it be possible…” → “I’d appreciate if…” → “I need to understand…”)
- Write one confirmation email for an agreed change
Output check: Can you make a request and confirm an agreement without sounding aggressive or overly passive?
Days 8–9: Lease Clause Clarity
Focus: Understanding and paraphrasing key terms.
Tasks:
- Read the lease glossary in this guide
- Choose 4 terms (notice period, deposit return, early termination, utilities/repairs split)
- Practice paraphrasing each one aloud: “So if I understand correctly, this means…”
- abblino paraphrase clinic: you paraphrase, abblino confirms accuracy or corrects misunderstanding
- Write 3 clarifying questions you’d ask a landlord about a real or sample lease clause
Output check: Can you paraphrase a lease clause in your own words and ask a follow-up question?
Day 10: Move‑in Inventory and Documentation
Focus: Protecting your deposit with good documentation.
Tasks:
- Read the move-in section of this guide
- Practice the “photo notes” script: “I’ll document the current condition with photos. Could we both sign the inventory report?”
- Role-play noting 3 types of damage: minor (scratch), moderate (stain), urgent (broken lock)
- Write one sample move-in email requesting repairs and confirmation
Output check: Can you politely insist on a signed inventory report and note pre-existing damage clearly?
Days 11–12: Repairs and Maintenance Requests
Focus: Clear description, urgency, availability, follow-up.
Tasks:
- Practice the repair description frame: “The [item] has [problem] since [date]. It’s [urgent/low priority]. I’m available [times].”
- Role-play 3 scenarios: urgent (no hot water), moderate (door won’t lock), low (loose handle)
- Mark stress and pauses in one repair request (abblino can help)
- Write one complete repair email using the template
- Write one follow-up email for a repair request that hasn’t been acknowledged in 5 days
Output check: Can you describe a repair issue clearly in under 60 seconds and offer specific access times?
Day 13: Mixed Mock Scenario (10–12 minutes)
Focus: Putting it all together without hints.
Tasks:
- abblino role-play: inquiry → viewing → application → negotiation → lease clause question → repair request (one continuous session, switching roles/scenarios)
- No pausing to look up phrases, use what you’ve saved and practiced
- Record or note where you hesitated, those are your review targets
Output check: Can you move through the full rental journey with only minor pauses and self-corrections?
Day 14: Review, Refine, and Schedule Real Calls
Focus: Polish and deploy.
Tasks:
- Review all saved phrases, star your top 20 “can’t live without” chunks
- Refine your email templates with real details (addresses, dates, names)
- Schedule or send one real inquiry (or simulation if you’re not ready to commit)
- Prepare your viewing checklist (print or phone note)
- Set a weekly goal: [X] inquiries sent, [Y] viewings attended, [Z] applications submitted
Output check: You have a working phrase bank, templates ready to personalize, and the confidence to make the first real contact.
Weekly targets over the sprint:
- +25–35 usable phrases saved
- ≥2 complete role-play scenarios without hints
- One smoother 60–90 second “rental call” (inquiry or viewing)
- Confidence to send real emails and attend real viewings
Micro‑Drills: 3–5 Minutes, High Impact
Use these when you have a short time slot, waiting for a train, between meetings, first thing in the morning with coffee.
Politeness Ladder
Take one request and phrase it three ways, from casual to formal. Say each aloud.
Example:
- “Can we move in on Friday?”
- “Could we move in on Friday instead?”
- “Would it be possible to move in on Friday, or is that too short notice?”
Why it works: You internalize the gradations of politeness so you can adjust on the fly based on the landlord’s tone.
Clarifier Loop
Practice the “Just to confirm…” pattern until it’s automatic.
Example:
“Just to confirm, the deposit is two months’ rent, and the notice period is three months, is that correct?”
Do 3–5 different confirmations in a row, varying the details (rent amount, move-in date, utilities included, repairs responsibility).
Why it works: This phrase is your safety net in every conversation, it prevents misunderstandings and shows you’re careful.
Connector Relay
Create 6 rental-related sentences, each using a different connector. No repeats.
Example:
- “The rent is €1,200. However, utilities are not included.”
- “The apartment is close to my office. Therefore, I could walk to work.”
- “Some buildings have high heating costs. For instance, older buildings often exceed €150/month in winter.”
- “The pipe is leaking. As a result, the bathroom floor is always wet.”
- “The lease is two years. On the other hand, I can terminate with three months’ notice.”
- “The landlord agreed to the repair. That said, I’d like it in writing.”
Why it works: Connectors organize your thoughts and make you sound fluent. This drill forces you to use them until they become second nature.
Number and Name Clarity Drill
Read addresses, rent amounts, and dates aloud with micro-pauses and stress. Record yourself and listen back.
Example:
“The rent is / €ONE thousand TWO hundred / per month, / starting / SEP-tem-ber FIRST, / at / MAIN Street / NUMBER twenty-FIVE.”
Why it works: Numbers and addresses are where most miscommunication happens. Slowing down, stressing key digits, and pausing before and after them dramatically improves clarity.
Repair Description Frame Drill
Use the template and vary the item, problem, date, urgency, and availability.
Template:
“The [ITEM] has [PROBLEM] since [DATE]. It’s [URGENT / LOW PRIORITY]. I’m available [TIMES].”
Example:
- “The water heater has no hot water since Monday. It’s urgent. I’m available tomorrow afternoon.”
- “The bedroom window won’t close properly since last week. It’s not urgent but should be fixed soon. I’m available Friday morning or Saturday.”
- “The front door lock is sticking since yesterday. It’s moderately urgent for security. I’m available this evening after 6 PM.”
Why it works: Repetition with variation builds the muscle memory. You’ll be able to describe any repair issue clearly without fumbling, even when stressed.
Common Pitfalls and Friendly Fixes
Pitfall: Vague Questions That Get Vague Answers
Example: “Is everything included?” (Landlord: “Yes, mostly.”)
Fix: Ask one precise question at a time and confirm back.
Better: “Just to confirm, does the rent include heating, or is that billed separately based on usage?”
Why it matters: Vague questions lead to misunderstandings. Precision = clarity = fewer surprises.
Pitfall: All Input, No Output
Example: You read 10 listings but never practice speaking or writing an inquiry.
Fix: For every 7–10 minutes of reading/input, do 7–10 minutes of speaking/role-play the same day.
Better: Read one listing, then immediately give a 60-second oral summary and draft an inquiry email.
Why it matters: Passive exposure doesn’t build fluency. You have to use the language to own it.
Pitfall: Speed Over Clarity
Example: You rush through a phone call and the landlord asks you to repeat half of what you said.
Fix: Slow down 10–15%. Stress key words. Pause before numbers, addresses, and dates.
Better: “The move-in date I’m hoping for is / SEP-tem-ber FIFTH. / Does that work?”
Why it matters: Speaking clearly is more impressive than speaking fast. Landlords appreciate tenants who communicate well, it signals you’ll be easy to work with.
Pitfall: No Written Follow-Up
Example: You agree to something on the phone or in person, but it’s not in the lease or any email.
Fix: Send a polite written confirmation within 24 hours of any verbal agreement.
Better: “Thanks for agreeing to repair the cabinet before move-in. Just to confirm in writing: the repair will be done by September 3, and I’ll move in on September 5. Is that correct?”
Why it matters: Verbal agreements are hard to prove. Written confirmations protect both you and the landlord and prevent “I thought you meant…” disputes.
Pitfall: Saving Word Lists Instead of Full Sentences
Example: Your notes say “deposit, notice, utilities” with no context.
Fix: Save complete, usable sentences with context tags.
Better:
- (inquiry) “Would you mind sharing the available viewing times this week?”
- (viewing) “Just to confirm, is the deposit equal to two months of rent?”
- (repairs) “The heating isn’t working. It’s urgent. I’m available tomorrow afternoon.”
Why it matters: You speak in sentences, not words. Full chunks are ready to use immediately; word lists require you to construct sentences on the spot (slow, error-prone, stressful).
Safety, Rights, and Practicalities
Keep Copies of Everything
- ID and application documents (originals and digital backups)
- All emails and messages with landlord/agency (create a dedicated folder)
- Lease agreement (signed copy)
- Inventory/condition report with photos (cloud backup)
- Payment receipts (rent, deposit, repairs)
- Repair requests and responses (dates and descriptions)
Why: If disputes arise (deposit not returned, repairs not done, lease terms contested), documentation is your evidence. Many countries have tenant protection laws, but you need proof to use them.
Confirm Payment Details
- Due date (first of the month? Specific day? Grace period?)
- Method (bank transfer, standing order, check, cash, online portal?)
- Account details (verify with landlord directly, not via email that could be spoofed)
- Receipt or confirmation (automatic, or do you need to request it?)
Why: Late payment can trigger penalties or even termination in some leases. Paying the wrong account (scam or error) can be hard to recover. Confirm once in writing and save that confirmation.
Personal Safety at Viewings
- Bring a friend if possible, especially for evening viewings or unfamiliar neighborhoods
- Tell someone where you’re going and when you expect to return
- If something feels off (landlord is evasive, property is not as advertised, pressure to pay immediately), trust your instinct and leave politely
- Video viewings are legitimate and safe if in-person isn’t possible, just make sure the video is live (ask them to show something specific in real-time to confirm it’s not pre-recorded)
Why: Most landlords and agents are professional, but scams exist (fake listings, deposit theft, unsafe properties). A healthy level of caution protects you.
When Rules or Policies Are Unclear
- Ask for the specific policy or clause in writing (email or lease addendum)
- Polite phrasing: “Could you clarify the policy on [issue] in writing so I have it for my records?”
- If the answer is still vague or contradictory, consider it a red flag
Why: Verbal promises (“Oh, we never enforce that clause” or “Don’t worry, we always allow subletting”) aren’t binding. If it’s important, get it in writing before you commit.
You Can Be Friendly and Firm at the Same Time
Friendly: “Thank you so much for your time. I really appreciate your help with this.”
Firm: “That said, I do need the deposit terms clarified before I can sign.”
Why: Many expats worry that being assertive will cost them the apartment. In reality, landlords prefer tenants who ask clear questions and know their rights, it signals you’ll handle the lease responsibly. Politeness and firmness aren’t opposites; they work together.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many apartment listings should I contact per day as an expat?
Answer:
Three to five serious, tailored inquiries per day is realistic and sustainable without burning out. Focus on quality over quantity, a personalized message that includes your timeline, status, and one smart question will get more responses than 20 generic “Is this available?” messages. If you’re in a very competitive market (e.g., Amsterdam, Dublin, Berlin), you may need to increase that to 5–8, but make sure each one is still thoughtful and specific. Track response rates and adjust: if you’re getting responses to most inquiries, keep the current pace; if response rates are low, review your message tone and content (too vague? Too casual? Missing key info?).
Can I negotiate rent or lease terms as an expat?
Answer:
Yes, but focus on small, specific asks rather than broad price reductions. Landlords are more open to:
- Adjusting the move-in date by a few days (especially if it helps them clean or repair)
- Including small items (furniture, parking spot, second set of keys)
- Clarifying or slightly adjusting lease clauses (subletting allowed with notice, notice period alignment, early termination with clear penalty)
- Completing minor repairs before move-in (fix a leak, replace a broken handle)
Rent reductions are harder, especially in tight markets, but offering a trade-off (longer lease term, higher deposit, advance payment) can work. Be polite, specific, and confirm any agreements in writing. In some countries (e.g., Germany), rent is more fixed by regulation; in others (e.g., Spain, Portugal), there’s more flexibility.
What if I don’t understand a lease clause?
Answer:
Don’t sign until you do. Use this process:
- Paraphrase it aloud: “So if I understand correctly, this clause means [your interpretation]. Is that right?”
- Ask for a brief written explanation or example: “Could you give me an example of how this would work if [scenario]?”
- Note any deadlines, fees, or conditions and confirm them in a follow-up email.
- If it’s still unclear, ask a local friend, expat group, or tenant rights organization to review it. Some countries have free tenant advice services.
- Use clear, polite language: “I want to make sure I fully understand before signing. Could you clarify [clause] for me?”
Remember: Lease language is often dense and uses legal or formal terms. Asking for clarification is normal and professional, it shows you take the agreement seriously.
Is a video viewing acceptable before I arrive in the country?
Answer:
Yes, especially if you’re still abroad and can’t attend in person. Video viewings have become standard during and after COVID-19. When requesting one, be polite and specific:
“If in-person viewing isn’t possible before [date], would you be open to a video viewing? I’d appreciate seeing all rooms, the heating system, appliances, and the building entrance if that’s manageable.”
Tips for video viewings:
- Confirm it’s live (ask them to show something specific in real-time to verify it’s not pre-recorded)
- Request they walk through all rooms, open closets, turn on taps/heaters, show windows and locks
- Ask your clarifying questions during the call (utilities, deposit, notice, repairs)
- Record the video if allowed (for your notes and to review details later)
- Confirm the next steps at the end: application process, timeline, required documents
- Follow up in writing with a summary and any remaining questions
Video viewings work well for initial screening, but if possible, see the place in person before signing the lease, or have a trusted local friend do a walk-through for you.
Try abblino Today
Rental success abroad is about more than finding the right apartment, it’s about communicating clearly, asking smart questions, and building a professional relationship with your landlord from day one. abblino gives you realistic, structured role-plays for every stage: inquiries that get responses, viewings that uncover hidden costs, applications that stand out, lease negotiations that protect your interests, and repair requests that actually get things fixed.
You’ll get gentle, targeted corrections (set to “major errors only” during fluency-building, then increase for polish), upgrade phrases that make you sound more professional, and the confidence to handle real conversations without fumbling or second-guessing.
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